I need advice about infidelity....Scenario - A wife finds out that her husband has been calling another woman?

When the wife finds out who it is she realizes that there is no reason for her husband to be talking with this woman. She lives in the same area but is married and the husband and wife are not social friends with this other woman and her husband. So the wife researches how long the calls go back and thinks they only go back six months. The wife confronts the husband and when the wife says this woman's name the husband looks like he has seen a ghost. The husband tells the wife that it's not her - it's a friend of hers and they go through this woman to talk to one another. The husband confesses it has been going on for two years......the wife is dumbfounded. After researching phone records, the wife only finds the woman that lives near by on the husbands records - for the past two years on and off. The husband says he doesn't know where this woman's friend lives or works and doesn't think she is married - the wife concludes that the affair is with the woman nearby - do you agree?I need advice about infidelity....Scenario - A wife finds out that her husband has been calling another woman?
What difference does it make? He already admitted to cheating.I need advice about infidelity....Scenario - A wife finds out that her husband has been calling another woman?
He's probably cheating with both women. Either way I wouldnt trust him ever again.
Bingo!
100%!
Of course.





Open your eyes, girl.
i agree and i recently found out the same thing happened to me.
YES YES YES
Does it matter where she is. Your hubby cheats.
Well we all know that we pray for ou that he is not cheating honey but unfortunatly it sounds like he is. MEN SUCK!
one wants to stop, the other manipulates her because she's scared...one knows he's married, the other doesn't.....





the innocent one catches the heat....





agreed...
Makes no difference where the whore lives....the stinking husband is cheating!
I'm sorry for the wife but yes he's cheating but I think the so-called 2nd woman is probably not real. He may bring up this other woman so the wife won't confront the neighbor.


I don't believe in divorce but the woman has to decide whether it's worth staying in the marriage. Maybe try to resolve (therapy/counslg) the sitch but she needs to find out if this man wants to stay with her.
cheat-to-the-ing





srry, but his doing u wrong
CHEATER 100%
I would agree that it's none of your business. If you snoop on him and feel you own him, than it's quite clear why he would be looking elsewhere for real love and appreciation. Get over it or have a peaceful divorce. He's obviously not satisfied by you and you obviously want a puppy more than a partner.
TOTALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Yep!





Disrespectful, unloyal JERK he's being for sure!
He is cheating...plain and simple. He was caught and now it the next step rests with the spouse....work it out or divorce.
Regardless of who it is, he is unfaithful. She should put a stop to it immediately or file for a divorce.
what does it matter who it was with..the whole consept is there is something goin on with another freakin woman...
yes and maybe .


yes -wants to keep her husband out of it . and also did he give you the other women's name .


maybe -ask the other woman .





what difference does it make , he cheated on you , can you ever trust him again.





the question is. what now ?
hes cheating for sure
Well, going 'through' this other woman for so long just doesn't make sense. Why involve someone else. Sounds like he is trying to throw you off track to protect this woman. Don't let the fact that this woman is married through her off, she is cheating also.





I suggest that the wife follow her 'gut' on this one. The husband needs to be willing to stop all contact with this (or both) women and commit to the marriage. That means ending the relationships completely and sending a letter approved by the wife to the involved parties stating that he is committing to his marriage and will no longer be in any contact with her. Short and to the point. The wife should send the letter.





Find a good support group with experience with infidelity. It will really help. A counselor certified in couples counseling will be helpful, but often, you have to try more than one to find one that works for you.
Walks like a duck, sounds like a duck.. His goose is cooked!


yep, I'd say the woman near by.. Too much deflecting to be truth.. it Sounds fishy.. I'm firm believer , go with your instinct.. if it smells rotten, it is.. Never been wrong doing so.. First impressions work in marriages and lies told in ..


A relationship at any level, can not truly grow out of lies and deceit. Especially a marriage.. The foundation there of trust must always be firm..


So sorry to hear this, i know what it feels like..


If you have children try and keep them out of knowing any thing if possible.. taking sides isn't healthy.


decide in your own heart what and where you want to go on from here.. and, then do it. Build your self esteem in volunteer work, i found that the best healer, especially in areas of hospital or disaster work.. Get a job if you don't have..and become self sufficient.. It will help you have dignity to rise above it. You took a great leap of courage in confronting him, you can do the rest if choose too.
the wife needs to get her own life and move out

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