Thursday, July 29, 2010

Legal advice please. I just recently found out that my husband had a one night stand with a very promiscious?

woman. Knowing that she could possibly have a std. Is there any way in Virginia that he could be charged with a crime (such as assult %26amp; battery or attempted murder)? This might sound ridiculous, but I am very angry and upset.Legal advice please. I just recently found out that my husband had a one night stand with a very promiscious?
Unless the std is HIV/AIDS, no. There's no legal recourse as far as filing charges.


You can however use this information and divorce him and probably get everything he has and everything he ever hopes to have. But! You have to be able to prove your accusations with some sort of documentation.Legal advice please. I just recently found out that my husband had a one night stand with a very promiscious?
sounds like you picked a loser...dump him and be done with it. Just move on, you'll be better in the long run than if you try to get revenge.
Get tested. Then get an attorney and dump his sorry butt.
Not unless you want to divorce him why go through all the trouble. Being angry is normal. But having the court system bogged down with a husband who couldn't keep his zipper up isn't that important. You should be tested no question! As for him, I would tell him that you want him to get tested atleast every 6 months or so to ensure that he's safe and to show you the proof. (i.e. documentation, results, etc) If he loves you and wants to work things out then he'll do it. If not move on, it's not worth it.
I don't think so. You say yourself she could ';possibly'; have an STD because of her promiscuous behaviour (according to you). This hardly implies intent to cause harm on your husband's part, does it? He's unlikely to deliberately sleep with a woman knowing she has an STD so he can catch it and deliberately pass it to you.





Cases like the ones you are thinking of are where men or women with hiv deliberately sleep with someone knowing they have the virus with the intent to pass it on through malice. This is unlikely to be the case with your husband.





The fact is he has just been a low down cheating scumbag and deserves a divorce. At least he can't contest it, and you can take him for everything he's got. Hope that can provide some consolation. You wont be able to sue him for the things you describe, though.
Your husband straying from you might be due to a problem on your side -- So, I suggest you tread carefully if you still love him. Sometimes a single mistake does not warrant destroying a relationship.





Do not act without thinking -- Impulsive decisions are usually regretted later.
Why are you asking this question on this web-site? This is not a legal website. Why don't you seek real legal advice from an attorney. Go to the yellow pages (under Attorney) and find one that is local.
Why?


That just sounds a bit vindictive due to jealousy!


Legally, it's not what you know, it's what you can prove!


Trying to prove something like that is next to impossible, so just handle it like an adult.


That means you take a good hard look at yourself and see if there are things that you either did or didn't do that may have promoted his infidelity and figure out if there was anything that you could have done differently to prevent it.


I'm not saying that it was your fault for what he did, but a mature adult would analyze things to help prevent it from happening again in the future!
Its all about what you can prove. If she had an STD and if he knew he caught an STD from her and if he knowingly passed a deadly STD to you, then yes you might have a case.


Otherwise, my best advice is a good divorce attorney.

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