X husband problems.... I need help and/or advice.?

Has anyone experienced an ex whereby they just would not accept that it's over? They insisted that they aren't letting you go. Almost bullied you and cornered you and wouldn't let you leave a particular situation? The up and down nice one day, mean and threatening the next day? How do you deal and when should I get the authorities involved. I almost feel like I need a bodyguard. We are going through a divorce and have a child. This doesn't happen in front of the child, but I'm afraid of being alone with him. He is hurting and has a crazy look sometimes. It's fresh, we've only been separated for three weeks, but I am 100% sure I want away from this crazy man. Can anyone shed some light on this situation? Please!X husband problems.... I need help and/or advice.?
Three weeks separation means the wounds inflicted to his psyche are still fresh. It is imperative to understand that he is still adjusting to the fact that ';THIS IS REALLY HAPPENING?'; He's been pulled from a sort of comfort zone, even though the marriage might not have been good up until that point. His mind is recalling every reason to win you back and the fact that he can't fix things and it really is happening is throwing him into those violent swings. You should expect this for a little while... a month or two at the most I would think.





After that, he may still be very hurt but his acceptance of the situation will begin to settle in. As for now he will be in a panic to put things back together until he finally realizes that he has to find another way to live. It does sound like he is going to be bitter for a while.





If you do not feel comfortable around him, then you should limit contact with him when you are by yourself. This is to say that you should either meet him in very public places, with a friend, or not at all. It is possible that the more contact you have with him might continue to lead him to believe that you still want to be with him and that maybe he can still fix things. Its delusional but could be construed as a lead on in any case.





The point at which any of it becomes physical or life threatening (i.e. pushing, pulling, grabbing, slapping, squeezing hard, verbal threats, insinuated threats, non-verbal gestures), then it is time to get a restraining order.





If you plan on it being a very hard divorce, then expect his behavior to get worse. In science everything has an equal and opposite reaction. In this case expect an equal or more dramatic reaction to anything you do. If you plan to stick it to him, then expect him to be irate and hostile, but as well expect that you will put him in circumstances in which he has to just accept things... at that point it could go either way.X husband problems.... I need help and/or advice.?
It's been three weeks - the man is distraught. Give him a break...if he does truly threaten or harm you - contact the police and get a restraining order. There's no law to stop people from being emotional when their family is about to be destroyed...
He's obsessive, and this can be dangerous. You're intuitive not to want to be alone with him. See him only when others are around. Be careful. It's the obsessive men who commit the murder suicides (if I can't have you, no one will).
These actions are fairly normal, my ex took over 2 years to get over it (mostly) my problem was solved by moving away %26amp; I could not have coped if he had been around threatening %26amp; pleading etc,


It's not so easy when you have a child, but you can take court action to protect yourself, don't take any risks because people in this state are so upset %26amp; mixed up they are not always responsible for their actions.