Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Pls I need advice about my momma's boy husband?

My husband and I got married two years ago and for the past two years we live with mother in law because she claim that she's too sick to be by herself. Most of the time she will act sick in front of my husband and bully me when his not around. After two years I told my husband I have enough of my mother in laws manipulation, so I decided to rent an apartment last month. I was hoping that my husband will stay with me but he rather choose to stay with his mother because she's threatening to kill herself if he leaves her. He's the only child and my MIL is 55 years old.She's too young to be in the nursing home, so we dont have any place to put her.I feel hopeless now and wanted to divorce my husband. Please any help is appreaciatedPls I need advice about my momma's boy husband?
don't have a second thought, divorce him. dont live like a martyr, mothers in law are like monsters..they will make your life miserable. im sure your husband cannot leave her mother. It's not being rude, but dont waste your whole life to this so called partner-in-life.Pls I need advice about my momma's boy husband?
He is married to you right? You leave a mother/father when you get married. He has to put God number one and you number two. He has to leave his mom and be with the one he married. See your pastor for counseling and he can point this out to him. Do this in a loving way to okay?
Marriage counselling to get everything out into the open. So he understands what is going on.
Take your MIL to a doctor for a checkup to see if she's actually sick. She's 55 yrs which is pretty young. Looks like she doesn't want to lose her only son.





Try talking to your husband, tell him you'll need to start a life of your own.The bible says when a man marries, he should leave his parents and be with his wife.


Another option is, if your mother in law is sick, get a nurse to live with her, or get an apartment for her close to you'll so you'll will have your privacy as well as be able to be there for her.
Stick to your guns, move into the apartment. Tell your ';husband'; he married you and that makes YOU the number 1 woman in his life and his duty is to you. HOWEVER, you are not without blame, you were fully aware of your husbands attachment to his mother before you got married and either you chose to ignore it or thought you could change him, you knew you would be moving in with his mother and accepted it and DON'T try to say she didn't show how she felt about you before you married her son, the signs are almost always there. You are now wanting to change the ';rules'; and I think you are fighting a losing battle. Next time you get involved with a man, pay attention to what he is like BEFORE you commit!

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