Tuesday, July 27, 2010

I need to leave my husband and have nothing, can anyone give me some advice?

Having nothing is way better than being with this guy...Im sure you got friends or family that you can turn to, if not go to a police station, salvation army, ect...


Its going to be hard but you really NEED to get away from him, go to the court systems get a divorce and tell you the truth i would not ask for nothing from him, because i would think you would still have ties from him.





Just get out, Get a divorce, and start over!!!! I will be praying for you.I need to leave my husband and have nothing, can anyone give me some advice?
get help from family and friends. there are also shelters that will help. the church can often lend a hand. Not having material possesions is not a reason to stay in a bad situation.I need to leave my husband and have nothing, can anyone give me some advice?
Leave him, after that you gotta work hard...
Contact a lawyer. He cannot do that and beside he is trying to be a control freak. IF you go back then you will turn into a submisive woman and he will probably beat you or worse.





BIll
What do you mean you have nothing? Take half.
This sounds very hateful and mean for someone to do to another person here we go again you have nothing at all because you have allowed yourself to become dependent on this person, do you have any family or friends that would help you until you get on your feet. go to church or something maybe they can help you find some where to live don't let anyone destroy your self esteem.


good luck
go to woman shelter, if he assaulted you report him to the police. take the house over and put his butt to the street.
I always think theres always to sides of the problem if you speak to him and let him know whats wrong our tell him what's wrong. Our check what are you doing wrong if nothing is wrong on yourside. The problem he has issues and they are not being able to talk about them our he has interest in other woman our plean simple he lost interest in you. I think is better to separate and go to a friend our family. Why do all man have to think with there small head.





Good luck
You have certain rights in a marriage. Find an attorney who will work on contingency and then sue your husband for all you can. The car is obviously yours. He may also be guilty of physical abuse which is grounds for divorce and is also a criminal act.
Send pic with looks so I can evalauate and then we go from there.
Wear comfortable shoes.
The first thing you should do is to consult a good lawyer. If you were a homemaker or not heavily employed during this time, you may be due some compensation or alimony.





You can also check with the local social services branch in your area. (I'm not sure what the official term is called.) They offer classes where you can brush up on your skills so you can get a good job. You can also check with your church. They can offer some help as well.





I would also check the local listings for a roommate or ask one of your friends if you can stay with them until you can find a good roommate.





Don't get discouraged. This is one of the hardest things you'll ever do in your life. You can make it.





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It sounds like he is an abusive husband, so there are many programs that will assist you in leaving. They are used to getting women who leave with no real posessions to their name (some with literally nothing) %26amp; they are willing to help. There are many sites listed on the US, but below is one link that has many shelters listed by state %26amp; even country.
then hang on for a while until opportunity comes.

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