Husband has been sending'recieving explicit texts, advice?

I have been married for a little over 6 months and been with my husband for three years. Recently I discovered that he has been exchanging explicit texts/pics with a woman who he has known for over 20 years. (since they were 12) he has not indicated that they had a sexual relationship in the past but i suspect that they screwed around when they were younger by they way he acted when her name was brought up thru an old freind of his that was at our house. They sometimes message each other 25 times a day every day and then maybe a week or so off and then again weeks on end and then not. I suspected something was up when he went his monthly limit for texts (300) as he occasionaly messages his friends but I never actually see him do it as much as indicated from our phone company. I know that he is completely loyal to me in other respects and would never physically cheat on me, but I'm really bothered.Husband has been sending'recieving explicit texts, advice?
Emotional cheating is the same as physical in my book, make him end it or leave. You dont deserve that, he shouldn't treat you like that either.Husband has been sending'recieving explicit texts, advice?
It's inappropriate. INAPPROPRIATE!!!! I don't care how long they've known each other, it's just not right!! You are his wife and you are his first priority. You need to tell him that this texting is inappropriate and tell him it has to stop! If there's nothing going on, and he cares about your feelings, then stopping shouldn't even be an issue.If he has a problem with it or if it continues, then definitely there's something more going on than you suspect. Whatever you do, don't allow him to make you feel like you've done anything wrong in asking for this. Take it from someone whose been through it - making YOU feel like the one in the wrong is what cheaters always do!! Good Luck.
25 times a day??? ummm something is up.
Your delerious....





if he sends explicit text to another woman....... only distance may be keeping them apart.........





your hubby is walking a fine line.. you have the right to ask him to stop.. and he should... if he doesn't then you are gonna have a problem... right now its this lady... 6 years from now it will be a neighbor....





don't be so darn naive that you think a man can separate sexual discussions from the act itself... its a mind thing at minimum... he is cheating with his mind..
OK.... but you are not making sense, because this bothers you yet are convinced nothing is going on. HELLO???





Something IS going on dear - he is spending FAR too much time and energy with another woman, behind your back, secretively. THAT is NOT OK, and you had better SAY SOMETHING right NOW. Ignoring it, or pretending nothing is going on, is the same thing as condoning it!!!





IF HE IS so committed to YOU, then WHY is he being sneaky and talking so much with HER?! WAKE UP!!!
noooo way would i put up with that....he needs to stop and u need to tell him to..how would he feel if you were doing that to him?
I dont know how you put up with that...He needs to stop, why would you marry him knowing he does that??? Now that your married you should of told him no more.. And even before you got married you should of said something, its not right, hes with you yet hes texting some other woman with explicit texts, no way would i put up with something like that, it cheating, and hello, you know somethings going on there...
This is definitely emotional affair, more severe than physical affair.





in regards of the girls, I guess he want the best of two world, that is why you find the girl is totally opposite to you. Obviously, she could give him something you don't.





Ask him to end this %26amp; if you two wants to keep the marriage, go for counselling.
You know for a fact he hasn't cheated yet?!?!? LOL You should be a comedian. If they are emailing each other 3 times a day he is having sex with her. 25 times a day not only is he having sex with her he is in love with her. You obviously have not learned the facts of life yet so here they are, learn them quickly!!!





1. There is no Santa


2. There might be a Bigfoot


3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat


4. Marriage ruins all relationships (moving in is the same)


5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)


6. Life is not fair





Good luck. Email me if you want to hear the truth. I don't lie.


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im a guy and let me tell you somthing is going on/its called phone sex,and if they do see each other they will have real sex because its just building up to that