Seperated from husband who is on ';down low';,I want divorce and custody, he is living recklessly, advice?

He is still in denial, he only has ';friends'; he is doing drugs and has no consideration for our young children who have no idea what is going on...he is careless when it comes to their care, and isnt really interested in having the children in his life because it is easier for him to do what he wants when he wants. I'm sure he would still live any kind of way and do anything in front of the kids..they didnt ask for this nor did I...but it is like he needs to keep me and the kids as a cover...he also doesnt want to pay child support...Seperated from husband who is on ';down low';,I want divorce and custody, he is living recklessly, advice?
You need proof to get a good settlement. (Photos, phone bills or recorded conversations, letters from friends saying they personally saw him engaged in illegal acts etc.) Get it before you leave because it's almost impossible after.





He won't be able to get out of paying child support, the state will garner his wages.Seperated from husband who is on ';down low';,I want divorce and custody, he is living recklessly, advice?
If you don't have a lawyer... call legal services... I don't know what state your in but the judicial standards have to be the same. Legal services deal in divorce and custody... If you do not make too much money they basically do it free and give you a lawyer... if that doesn't work talk to a few lawyers and see if you can make out a payment plan... if still no luck.... save you some money and go to the court house and file. you will have to type it up yourself but you can print a copy of someone's case a little similar to yours and go off of that. Call your court house and you should be able to file everything for 200 bucks...