Advice needed re: going back to a ex-husband?

been divorced a year this august, been talking on and off. now we are going to meet this weekend at his house he is more excited than me...plus...i just met someone and have had feelings starting...we have been kinda flirting with eachother for the past 2 days. i have known of him for 1 month. Should i tell my ex? Should i just move forward? help!!!Advice needed re: going back to a ex-husband?
The fact that you're confused about what to do suggests that you make no sudden moves in either direction. You're not sure if you want to go back and you're feeling like you'd like to look around and so going back to your ex doesn't seem like a good option, but the other guy is still a big unknown.





Take your time. You don't have to decide anything right now.Advice needed re: going back to a ex-husband?
yes i think you should be honest with him so he doesn't get his hopes up. Just say bob were meeting but its been a year and i've gone on with my life and i am dating again. I still care for you ( obviously you do or you wouldn't be meeting him) and say lets take things slow and see where it takes us. that way your not setting him up for a fall and your letting him know where your at in your life. start slowly see if what you didnt' like about him has change see how he treats you again and so on and so forth.





good luck
hadn't you already been down that road before.there's some reason you got divorced.continue seeing the new guy---he might be ';the man of your dreams';.
That is a tough question but he is your ex for a reason. Maybe you should just move forward and let the past stay in the past. Why tell your ex when nothing happened yet between you and the other guy? If you end up with this guy and still feel the need to tell your ex about him then fine but I wouldn't mention him when nothing has happened. But give the new guy a try, you never know!
I would not tell him you just met someone. You have not even given yourself a chance to know the new guy yet. If you want to meet up with your ex, that is YOUR choice. Do you think there is a chance of getting back together? Do you LOVE him?
You divorced him for a reason!
well you didn't state why you divorced...if you both too the step of divorce then maybe you shouldn't go back with him...marriage isn't something to take lightly...so if you both weren't able to save it while still married what makes you all think it will work not that your divorced....its probably best for both of you to move on..sad but true..and you can't be playing games with him..you say he is happy your going over then he may still have feelings for you..let everything out in the open...if you two get along now then stay friends but dont let feelings be crossed or mislead...
Alot of people learn what went wrong for the marriage to breakdown. They look back at the emotional dead corpse and perform an autopsy of it ';reflecting'; Pain from a relationship ending causes great emotional growth. Hopefully you have learned from this and him to. Have dinner with your ex and tell him what problems you had with him. See if he realizes that they where problems and is willing to work hard on those issues. Nobody is perfect and everybody deserves a second chance. Turn those new feelings towards your ex and start dating all over again. Explore new places and things with him. Learn how to dance and travel to show it off. Good luck and prove those people wrong who say ';an ex is an for a reason';
I would stop.....and examine why you both divorced in the 1st place.


I been friends with my ex almost 20 yrs now........but I wouldn't want her back at all.


That chapter in the Book of Life has been closed and sealed.


I'm leaving well enough alone.


People are who they are.............
Depends on why the marriage ended. Have you both changed, or would you both simply be going into Round 2 of a boxing match. Why don't you play it slowly and carefully, and don't rush it with either of these guys. You are a free agent now, so take some time to see what's out there. Some people make a mistake by divorcing because there was really a lot there between them but they didn't see it, and so they screwed up and gave up on the marriage too quickly. But if you felt the whole thing was better off over and you just began to get strong and grow as an individual, think twice before getting back into a situation that was not right for either of you guys and just didn't work out although you both tried to make it work (if that was the case). Nothing would make me get back into a relationship with my ex-. I would rather be single forever, although I was lucky to meet a wonderful man who loves the heck out of me about a year ago! Good luck!
you should have been honest with him in the beginning , that


way he would not be excited about your plans to get back together especially since you are not sure that what you


want and also that you are seeing someone else. may you


need to let him know this weekend what on your mind.


he and ex for a reason.other wise you would be still


married.
Which one has the most money and the best in bed pick him.. choose the one with the most money you can get your sexual satisfaction elsewhere.