I need advice I slept with my friends husband?

I'm riddled with guilt. Last week I stayed over at my friends house %26amp; I had sex with her husband. It's been building up to this point for ages and I finally succumbed, I'm gutted I was that weak and foolish. He's a really successful man and is well known and liked nationally. Today I feel like I want revenge cause he treated me like such a whore. But it gets worse in the past I've also secretly had sex with his brother and his father both of whom are married.


I know my friend would be devastated and disgusted if she found out and that's why I'm staying quiet for now. I also know that even calling her my friend is laughable after what I've done. I really want people to see him for the sleazebag he really is. What should I do? Keep quiet? Tell my friend? Go to the press and ruin his career?





I'm obviously not proud of what I've done, but also I'm not a whore, slut, tramp normally these men just seem to have a hold over me.I need advice I slept with my friends husband?
honestly if it were me, I would start to distance myself from the whole situation. It's a shame her husband is a dirt bag, and it's a shame that you succumbed to temptation but it's all water under the bridge now. Your friend is going to have to find out for herself that her husband is a cheater, it's not your responsiblity to clue her in on that. Everyone makes mistakes and you can't continue to beat yourself up over this, you realize it was wrong and you feel bad about it so that is all that you can do. I would leave the situation, do not seek revenge, be nice when spoken too and get as far away from this as possible. True, you will lose your friend but I would guess you probably have a lot of friends. To have a friend you have to really be a friend and in this case I guess you would agree that you weren't the best friend to her. You should leave the situation and not worry about any of them anymore and just take care of you and try never to do anything like that again. You need to pick up the pieces and move on. I know you are hurt and angry but you have learned a lesson, don't do that to yourself again. Hugs! It'll be ok.I need advice I slept with my friends husband?
Yeah your not a whore for sleeping with your ';friends'; husband and his brother and his father...


Maybe try keeping your legs shut? That would keep you out of trouble
You need to leave your town for awhile.





And maybe get some therapy
I think it is sad that you have slept with these three men - a father and his two sons. We all make mistakes but we need to learn from them. We also have choices. Are you not just repeating the same mistake? You may feel like you need revenge but I think you need to take responsibility for your part.


Take some time to reflect why you have made these mistakes, perhaps counselling may help. I doubt if you self esteem is all that good.