Husband on drugs! almost 6 months pregnant! please give advice?

my husband has a drug problem. he is addicted to crystal meth he was clean when we got married but shortly after started using again. so now im pregnant and we are not even living together because of his drug use. every time i talk to him or see him he accuses me of cheating (even though im pregnant) and he calls me a wh*re and b*tch and every name you could think of. it really hurts me. i really love this man we have known each other since we were 13 years old. he also lives a couple blocks from me at the moment. just lately he turned his phone off and hasn't talked to me for 2 days and i feel horrible i know its stupid but i really want to just go over to where he is living and try to talk to him. i worry about him and love him. do you think i should just show up at his house or should i just leave him alone? any advice from someone who has been in a similar situation?Husband on drugs! almost 6 months pregnant! please give advice?
My sister got with a guy that she didnt know was a drug addict he kept saying he was gonna do better she had a daughter with him and he was there for her son since he was a baby anyways 8 years later kids lifes are ruined her life is ruined her kids were almost taken by state and now he is finally in jail but those kids are ruined for life mentally and also with somone being hooked on drugs eventually there money runs out and they turn too selling stuff your stuff think about your child right now let him go and deal with his issues when he is done he will be back good luckHusband on drugs! almost 6 months pregnant! please give advice?
OK this is going to be harsh ,do you really want to be with a man who is a drug taker. Do you want to bring your child into the world with this man who obviously disrespects you and his unborn child i would break free from this man if only for your child who deserves a safe environment to be brought up in .You are worth more than this man .
Wow, this guy is definitely bad news. Think of it this way, if your daughter dated a guy like him who treated her that way, wouldn't you want her to move on? You need to focus on your baby now, he needs to be out of the picture. But, if you stay with him, then you know the stress and trouble you're causing yourself AND your unborn child. NOT healthy.
hey jenn i understand this must be hard for you. I want to take this opportunity to send out my well wishes towards you. However, I think that you should forget about him he is only going to bring you down. Right now you need to focus on yourself and your baby try to stay happy during your pregnancy it helps in the long run. Being around a drug addict is potentially a dangerous situation for you and your child, there is no telling what he might do and you need to focus on your safety first. I am pretty sure that you love him and that fact has you hurting but right now you are not in a position to help him, he needs a professional. If you would like to help him you should see about getting one for him. But right now you need to focus on yourself you are lucky that you are giving the gift of life to somebody. Many people \want to and cant.


Also you have to think in terms of your future if you go back to him what kind of life would it result in for your child and yourself. He can potentially be a woman beater and child abuser and you should not expose yourself and your child to that ..


And in times of weakness never discount the love of God. Pray to him it might help, maybe not at first but eventually.
It would be the stupidest move ever to hang on to this man until he proves his sobriety for at least a year. You aren't just dealing with yourself anymore. . . you have a child to worry about. You can't bring this child into the world where it will be around a drug addict as a father. And meth! That's like the worst of the worst! Meth addicts are prone to unpredictable and violent behavior. This is NOT safe for you or your baby.





You can't force someone to get sober. You can't rationalize with them. He has to make the decision on his own. It might take jail, or a health crisis like a heart attack which wakes him up to what he's doing to himself. He isn't going to do it for the sake of you or this pregnancy. And you don't deserve this kind of abuse, being called names and accused of being a cheater.





You need to gain some self esteem, independence, and shift the focus of your life off of this man and onto your unborn child. If you keep pursuing him in the hopes of changing him, you are only setting yourself up for more heartbreak, and setting your child up for a lifetime of misery. The choice is yours.