Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Caught husband downloading naked pics of my mom from her laptop....advice??

My husband is across the country staying with my parents to look for work. I was looking at my husbands email %26amp; saw he had downloaded pics off my moms laptop of her naked. They were pics she took for her hubby. I freaked out and am now disgusted by my husbands actions. This goes further than your typical guy looking at porn. I can't tell my mom because they will kick him out and he is job hunting and house hunting there. What would you have said/done? How would you feel? Any advice will be helpful. Thanks.Caught husband downloading naked pics of my mom from her laptop....advice??
I want to know how he found the pics....knew that they even existed in the first place....there is something very wrong with this story. Why were you looking at his email??? Were you trying to find something??? What are you NOT telling us?Caught husband downloading naked pics of my mom from her laptop....advice??
Put him on the Jerry Springer show
ask him about it. He may just be setting them up for a mean joke...I hope. anyway, get ready to have a big fight with him though. If your mom looks a lot like you and is lovely, then you have nothing to worry about. otherwise he is a freak!
Wow.....you sure can pick them. Good luck with that!!!
just slowly get on the subject. tell your mom, trust me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You should kick him out of the house instead of your mother. That is just plain sick. Your mom should of been smarter and took those pics out of the computer knowing that someone is going to stay there and possibly see them. It would be one thing if he called you and told you that he has seen a pic of your Mom naked but you know he downloaded them for his sexual gratification.
just let it out. if he's doing such a thing imagine what ge will do to your parents' marriage?! and you still worry about him?! defend your parents first what if he's some kind of sicko?!
Truthfully, in this case, I would let my mother know. This is complete and utter DISRESPECT for BOTH u and your mother and if this is the kind of sick person he is, he needs help. And because he is there staying with them, u need to let your mother in on this as soon as possible. When he comes back home, u deal with him separately.
That is completely unacceptable behavior. If he is doing this, you need to ask yourself what else has he doing half way across the country. You did not say whether or not you have kids, or how long you have been married. But, if it were me I would be looking for a divorce lawyer. This guy can not be trusted. If he is doing something this sick then I guarantee you he is doing other stuff you are unaware of. He can not be trusted. Get out while you can. Also you mom does need to know. May think about how you tell her. You dad is likely to blow a gasket and get into some legal problems over it. Hope things work out best for you.
omg...i would be so pissed....I'm talking divorce!!.....or at least look at his dad naked to get back at him!!...lol
How did she look?
EEk i would dump him......
That is really gross. I would get him out her house ASAP and start counseling for him!
I would do the following:





1. Let my husband know I know what he did


2. I would tell my mother





Sorry, that is just all the way around wrong, looking for a job or not - and you want to be with him?
Relax sweetie. I need to evaluate the pictures before I can make an accurate assessment. I think you might be over-re-acting. ------------
I would be looking for a good lawyer
Maybe it's your mom you need to talk to......
thats sick, i don't know what to tell you...smack him are kick him in the nutz
uhm eww why do u care if they kick him out they should and if u stay with him ur stupid!
who cares if he is job or house hunting tell them he is a gross pig and be done with his a*s you dont need that and neither do they... i would want to know if he did that to me and was sleeping under my roof you owe it to them to tell them for godsake dont you think... it is your mom after all the woman that gave birth to you dont not tell her she would want you to tell her asap....do it .... for your own peace of mind and theirs
thats not right
EEWWWW
Your mom put the pic's out there. Maybe you should have a chat with your mom.Would you be upset if the pic's were of someone else other then your mom?

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