Would you break up with your boyfriend/husband if his mom hate you? (Some advice please) ?

Sure, she ask my boyfriend to introduce me to the family member and things like that., but underneath by reading her tone and body language I don鈥檛 think my bf mom like me very much.





Yesterday was our three month anniversary and I was not feeling well. So he came to my side of town, went to my Dr. appointment with me and hung out in his side of town until four because he had to pick up his mom at 4.





So after he pick up his mom,,,we headed to his mom house. As usual I drive to their house, but when she got there she did not see my car. She ask me where is my car./ The son responded at my house (35 minutes away) She slammed the car door and ask ed to speak with her son inside. I heard yelling.





I got of the car and headed to a school nearby. Ask a stranger for $5 dollar. Took three city bus and headed home. They called me on my phone. I did not pick up. The mom called me this morning and want me to call her back. I am not sure what to do. If she did not hate me then, she definitely does now because her mom and son are mad at her. I don鈥檛 know what to do? Should I break up with him because family acceptance is one of the major priority that I look for in a relationship. Should I call the mom back and say what?Would you break up with your boyfriend/husband if his mom hate you? (Some advice please) ?
first i would like to inform you that mom are very possesive when it comes to their sons, why? sons can fill in some affections that father


do not give in(if that is the case), like being sweet nd loving..


moms feel they are the queen, and since they were the ones that sacrificed for their children from birth up to the present, they feel that


anyone that will ';rob'; of the affection away from them is a threat...


so they will be jealous of any girl that will enter to their sons' life...


protective, they will say.


in relationship, bf can be easily break up, but husband? pretty hard.


before you make any decision, try to analyze, will you be happy w/him inspite of his mom? its true, that we are to look after the family relationship, because they will our future extended family...


you are wise to think about it... decide where you will be happy...


there are lots of big, better fish in the ocean of love.Would you break up with your boyfriend/husband if his mom hate you? (Some advice please) ?
Just break up with your b/f. You'll never overcome his mother's attitude and she'll never learn to like you. I have experience with a situation similar to yours. It just isn't worth the trouble to keep seeing this guy.
don't let his mom bug you its his life not hers
Girl, you're missing how to mess with her s**t and weld that man to you like steel rebar. Get the idea he's a bit the Momma's boy and she resents losing her baby? Uh-huh. Well, you can't go running off like a baby girl and just give her the game. Be a WOMAN. Just stand there syaing nothing, with this mild expression on your face, and keep looking at him like he gonna explain EVERY D**N thing to her. And pretty soon he will or he won't. She looks at you like she gonna get an answer from you? Look at him--HE's got he answer for her, not you. She attacks you? Look at HIM--HE's the MAN, right? And HER son, too/ You do NOT want to be THAT KIND OF FAMILY, NUH-UH. Meanwhile, you're giving HIM an education in how to become a man by doing nothing more than laying those big brown eyes on him. Hooo--dollar-a-second work if ever I saw it, and no sweat. I pulled this s**t on my drunkard and foul-mouthed mother-in-law who had terrorized her husband and every man who tried to marry into that 4-girl family, and she could no more handle me than a blacksmith's anvil. Too bad my wife turned out to become her mother. Don't YOU do that stuff, hear? Remember who taught you--try that last s**t and I'll drive over there and bounce you AND him up and down all day.
Well look at it like this, My mother never did like my G/F. So we stayed away from her house.I spent allot of time at her house with her parents. because they did like me. And after i went into the military We got marred and moved out of the state. My mother said it would never last two years. Well to this day we are still marred and at the end of this month we will be marred 35 Years.