now after 2 yrs of married life along with a kid i am scared if he comes to know abt this what should i do??I have cheated my husband as i hid few personal stuff at the time of wedding ..pls advice?
Tell him you the ex was so boring, you'd simply forgotten all about him.I have cheated my husband as i hid few personal stuff at the time of wedding ..pls advice?
You should tell him. If he finds out elsewhere, he's going to be more mad, finding out from someone else than from you.
Since you signed the marriage contract under false pretenses he can legally sue you and get out of it. You might be a little worried.
Tell him you have something to tell him that you should have before you were married but were too embarrassed to at the time. then just tell him about the previous marriage. if your marriage is strong...he will forgive you. Its nothing to break up a marriage.......a lifetime of lies is.
wow....all i can tell you is to confess %26amp; hope he is a forgiving person....i really do wish u luck,,,i would be freaked out to tell, but like some of the others said it would be better him hearing it from you than someone else, pray for forgiveness
Not sure why you didn't tell him the truth in the beginning, but now is a good time to start being honest with him. If he finds out elsewhere he will be more angry with you. What kind of marriage do you have without trust???? Not a very good one
Just tell him before it gets any worse I mean, what if you don't ever tell him and he never finds out? I mean, wouldn't you feel guilty for taking that to your death bed?
come clean
Try being honest, it isn't that hard to tell the truth.
You better sit down and tell all about it, before he finds out another way. Why would you of hidden that from anyone?
I would go ahead and tell him before he finds out. Tell him your reasons for lying and how sorry you are. He will probably be mad at first but appreciate the fact that you told him.
just tell him who cares you were married before big woop
wow scary, but tell him how would u feel if the situation was reversed?
What a horrible person you are. You've lied to this man, for all of this time; and you're still lying, after 2 years of marriage. You are sick inside and I won't help you one bit with your lies. Tell this man the truth, for a change!
Without knowing the reason you lied, I can't give you a well informed answer. You are in a pickle.
Too late now, huh. Just tell him. Being divorced does not mean you cheated on your husband either. It just mean you did not tell him about your past and lied.
I agree with Meister
crazy i dont get it
this is a big issue.
i think what you have to do is ask him if he love you very mush that in are problem or issue he will still love you. If he says yes then, i think you should tell your Church Pastor or any elderly person and let that person follow you to yuor husband's house and solve this issue once and for all.
Any way good luck
Tell him. Otherwise your entire marriage is a lie. The longer you go the worse it will become.
Tell him and then pray that everything ends up okay.
Why did you lie about something like that? is not fair to him. Well what I would do is to have a talk with him . May be a game like truth or dare? but again depends on what kind of a guy he is. heck ..I'm speechless.
Lady you are in a big mess I wish you the best of luck!
You need to tell him. Eventually, truth ALWAYS come to light. You would much rather he heard it from you than another family member or friend. He might be hurt and upset, but I highly doubt that knowledge will make him leave you now.
maybe you should just come out and be honest with him. especially if you have a kid. maybe you should let the mom or daddy let the kid know.. or maybe you should file divorce paperws if your not happy with your husband/wife.. its really up to you what to do about it, but i would tell him
It's too late for this marriage, just remember to tell your next victim that you have been divorced twice now.
Sometimes it is always good to tell the truth, if it slips out in like 10 years you could be in more trouble than before.
just tell him
it will b better than if he finds out himself %26amp; gets mad
the only thing he'll probably b mad about is that u lied 2 him
tell him u were wrong %26amp; apoligize %26amp; promise never 2 lie 2 him again
hope i helped :-)
WOW! Why would you lie about something like this and why would you wait 2 years to tell him about it.
While I think you need to be honest with your spouse. I am not sure if that is going to benefit from you. It makes you look like you are guilty of something or that you have something to hide.
I wish I could give you a better answer to your question but what I can tell you is....
If you think he is going to find out from someone else then you better tell him before someone else does. Because then he will definitely feel more betrayed then if you had told him yourself.
If you do tell him, I would say get ready for some hurt feelings and probably and argument.
IF I was in your spouses shoes and I found this information out two years later. I would feel as if I didn't even know you.
u need serious help... how dare u cheat on your husband with kids...
god you are pathetic
you should have told him first, well now we are here and you can't change time. I really don't know if you should just keep it hidden and loose the chance of him getting really mad when he finds out. or tell him yourself ,and explain why you hid it because you loved him and did not want to loose him.
That's not good, but it's too late now.
You have to decide if you think he's going to forgive that. If you don't think he would, then I wouldn't say anything. I know that is dishonest, but what difference does it make at this point?
That's why it's a bad idea to lie - then later you have to worry about making sure the lie stays covered up. I hope your ex husband is far, far away.
Good Luck.
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