My husband cheated on me and now it's hard to have sex any advice?

I can't even get in the mood but i want to have GREAT, AWESOME sex sooooooo bad. but i just can't get in the mood because all i see is him being on top of his mitress and is this the way he did it to her and i can't go down because it reminds me that she was down there and etc... any help. even when i am by myself and i try to watch a porn to help me get aroused, when i see the woman's coochie i get upset and it's just another reminder and i get turned off. i am divorcing him (we still live together through it and we get along fine) but i still feel it's wrong if i go and have sex with someone else because we are still married. Please help, i need some BADLY.My husband cheated on me and now it's hard to have sex any advice?
I don't know if you're asking how to make it easier to have sex with the man you are divorcing or sex in general.





First of all, you need to MOVE OUT and away from the cheater.





Second, you may need some counseling to get through those emotions of betrayal, especially if you can't even get yourself off by yourself because of what happened.





Good luck!My husband cheated on me and now it's hard to have sex any advice?
If you all are divorcing, then why worry about having sex? Wait until the divorce is final then have sex with someone else. If you need some badly, just sleep with him. Maybe you will forget about the other woman in the mean time.
If you're divorcing him then why do you need tips on having sex with him again?
Welcome to the confused zone! Those who have their trust destroyed dwell in this place all the way until the day the divorce is final. Yes there are those who can't wait. There are those who reciprocate the offense, a sort of ';do unto others as they have done unto you'; twist. However, you seem different. You appear to have a deeper grasp of this confusion. Actually that sounds like an oxymoron. You just appear more of a ....... mature! That's it! Your words indicate you are a young at heart kind of girl, almost a giddy adolescence, but the underlying thought shows the maturity of wisdom acquired.


Does this help, NO. You will get over it! It's just going to take finalizing the divorce, kicking his cheating buns out, and looking for love again. Note: you may need to inform your next target that you may jump at sex a bit too soon. This will excite some but look for someone that will understand, and move slow despite your needs.