So one of my husband's new gf's is asking ME for advice........?

My husband, in iraq, wants a divorce. Workin on the paperwork now. Well, he has since got himself a gf in the town he will be stationed in once this deployment is over.. Now, she KNOWS he is a liar. She and I caught him in a lie very recently. She's asking ME for advice???? Hrm.... opportunity for sabotage? Massive barrage of insults about how dumb she is for going back to him?? Oh. the possibilities........So one of my husband's new gf's is asking ME for advice........?
I'm a firm believer in KARMA.





I wouldn't go out of my way to give her advice BUT if you happen to talk to her and she asks you for advice, give your advice. Be honest and tell her, by doing that, you are being the adult. She broke up a marriage, she'll get what's coming to her and it's too bad you won't be there to see it but it's KARMA!So one of my husband's new gf's is asking ME for advice........?
No Mel, you tell her he is her problem now and that you have no interest in getting involved.





That is the ADULT thing to do....





feel free to come up with all sorts of wicked things in your mind that you could have done - but keep them only in your head and do the right thing.
The best thing to do is tell her your honest opinion, it's her choice whether she listens to you or not. She should already know how he is, so it's her problem now not yours. Just tell her what you think and what you would do if you were still with him.
No offence you sound like Melanie Brown aka Scary spice who has been having same issues with Eddie Murphy
If you werent ';good enough'; for him in his eyes, then why should she be? Why should you help her when she wants to make a relationship with the man that you still call husband?? she obviously has some issues of her own that she should sort out. Tell her ';you know, the guy is a real jerk. no matter how i advise you, the overall answer will lead to...Jerk. If you want to continue a realtionship with a jack-***, thats up to u. but dont ask me for advice on how to keep a realationship with MY husband!';
That's great, she's asking for advice..and you'd know best!


Tell her what you can..Ay least if she stays with him, she'll have been warned, and when he screws her over too, she'll only have herself to blame!
Don't take the bait. Tell her you have nothing to say on the topic of your soon-to-be-ex.





Why are you talking to her at all?
I wouldn't take phone calls from either one of them.
Stay out of it. You have enough aggravation. Let her look out for herself. Get a divorce and move on.
Tell her the best advise you can give her is to wash her hands of the loser just like you are.
i think you should stay out of this. she is her new relationship and think about it would she really believe you? i say you are asking for trouble if you even talk to this girl. you are going to give her advice on her new relationship with your old boyfrined that you recently broke up with. does that sound sain??? ignore both of them. good luck.
be honest.. that was i was to my ex .. gf.. they really did not work out.. unless you still love him.. or want to get even..
Tell her what you know if anything, to help her. Don't be evil. Then ask her not to call you again because you have moved on.