Need your advice about my mom and her new husband?

ok my mom recently got married to a guy she met on the internet. he doesn't have a job and my mom works overtime all the time and she lets her husband buy whatever he wants (new stuff for his truck, motorcycle, clothes, ect) and i don't even have a bed.... i sleep on the couch and i am begging her for a bed because the couch hurts my back...





i ask my mom for a new backpack or clothes and I tell her I would work for it and all she ever says in NO NO NO but she gives her husband a $300 allowance every month...he has no job





everyone says its my mom and her husbands money and i have no say so i shouldn't complain....





who's right? is that fair and what should i do? i'm 15 btwNeed your advice about my mom and her new husband?
Oh dear, sounds like you are being treated as second best. I agree with you. But you know what, no good sooking about it, how about you get yourself a part time job, save your money and buy your own stuff. Know you shouldn't have to, but I'd rather be independant than have to rely on being treated as second best. Good Luck sweety.Need your advice about my mom and her new husband?
Its not fair that you sleep on the couch while new hubby gets new toys!! Adults don't get allowances they get jobs. Your mom has lost track of what is important here... you! Where is your daddy? Talk to your school councelor/social worker/pastor/grandparent if mom won't listen! Good Luck.
Yes...it is your mom's and her husbands money. However, you are still your mom's responsibility and if their is something that you need, really need, not just want, then I think your mom should make sure your needs are met. Do you think youo could be a little jealous of her new husband? Maybe you want things because he is getting what he wants. I am not saying you are being bad or anything like that, but just stop and sit and maybe think about what you want versus what you need. Oh and by the way...your mom should buy you a bed.
Uumm a bed. might not be a good idea but if you get along with your step father ask him to buy the bed you know he does get a 300 a month allowance. tell him the couch is hurting your back
i am sorry but those who say its ur moms and his money are very wrong...


your mom has to be a mother first to her child and take her of her child.. and then she should be a wife.. u have every right to have the basic needs to live comfortable... i mean the bed..not acceptable that u sleep in a couch... the relationship ur mom has with her new guy is more.. like paying him for his company and what ever they have in between them.. he shoud be working and helping out with bills and rent and anything needed in the home.. sadly many women let the men get away with this because they feel lonely or have low self esteem... i am on ur side... ur mom is wrong on doing this..try talking to ur mom the way u feel... she might give it some thought.. good luck...
I'm on your side. You need a bed, and your mother needs a reality check. There is NO WAY my kid would go without a bed.
did your mom bump her head! wow sorry to hear you have to compete against her new hubby wow.... that hubby needs to get out there and get you a bed , buy you what ever you need in life until you turn at leasst 18.... sorry piece of crap..... when you get going with your life that is going to scar you forever! and you know what i would send your mom adildo and say mom at least you can save money!lol,lol,,,,, your 16 can you get a permit to work? i think you can and summer is here so just get out there and earn that nice bed you want..... it won't take long and your mom will see you are doing your very best ... good luck
Tell your school councelor you are sleeping on the couch and it will magically get fixed.


OR


Can you go live with your Dad or another relative?