I have a problem and im not sure on how to take it. My husband shoots up roxy's into his arms. It is tearing our family apart. We have a beautiful 1 yr old son and another little boy due in october. I know my hubby loves our kids and loves me but this addiction is taking ahold of him. He will do anything to get high and sometimes i cant even tell he is because he hides it so well. Over the past year i have put a sheild up to where I act like I dont know whats going on, but when im alone i do nothing but cry. I need advice, and real advice not just someone thats gunna write something to be a smart ***! Please help me![/b]My husband has a drug problem and i need advice before i go crazy?
If not for yourself for your son, you need to get away from him until he can become and stay clean. He will and can only drain you and nothing positive can come from it. Is this the life and example you want your son raised around? WIthout intervention it will only get worse from here.My husband has a drug problem and i need advice before i go crazy?
i have done a lot of work with drug uses
you dont hav his love any more his drugs do
drug users are self centered liers
your only option is to leave him, if he gives it up and goes to rehab then maybe get back togeather
but he will lie he has given up to stop you leaving but it is a lie
Shoot him with drugs while he sleeps steal hes shows, put him him in a potatoe sack feed him the the jagwires.
Hes drug problem will be fine, he might die YOU GET THE MONEY AYYYYYAYYYAYYA.
Ps im his dealer JK
im NOT i live in canada we have polor bear's.
If someone takes drugs they are possessed.
They are not yours anymore.
They may be there in appearance but not in presence.
You are in a relationship with a demon.
There is nothing you can do.
Of course you love him
Do not endorse his behavior but enduring it.
Your responsibilities are as follows
to yourself
to your unborn
to your child
You are not responsible for a man.
You are not in any way obligated to be there for a demon.
Your contract in the relationship has been broken
You are free to go.
This is a major disaster waiting to happen and it is only gonna get worse. If he won't give up the drugs and get into professional rehab right away you need to think of your children and get out of the marriage. You deserve better and drug addicts do not make for good husbands or fathers. I know this is not what you want to hear but it is the truth. The drugs will always come first and they are gonna bring him down if he does not kick right away. The question is are you going to let them take you and your children down for the count with him? As a responsible mother you cannot let that happen. Good luck and God bless, you will need both.
Have you confronted him yet? you know him better than i to know if that would be a good thing to do or not..
but it sounds as he needs help and make sure to have some family or friend support with you through this.. no doubt its hard. my cousin has the same problem except her husband is more like an alcoholic. she has a 1yr old son as well and it too has been really hard on her. if he really cares about you and the kids, when hes not high you may want to talk to him if you havent, but dont if hes the type to get angry. so get support and professional advise chances are you wont get that on here.
best of luck
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