I get really wet during sex, and my husband finds this a turn off, any advice?

We have been married 10 years, and I am his first. He is my.... well, he's definitely not my first. I enjoy sex, and we are together at least 3/4 times a week. My problem is that he is turned off, or grossed out at how wet I get. He says stuff like, why are you so slimy. Is there anything I can do to help him enjoy it more? I keep a cloth with me during the act, and am constantly having to wipe, to make sure I am very dry, so he doesn't feel disgusted. I want to be able to enjoy this part of me with him. Any suggestions???I get really wet during sex, and my husband finds this a turn off, any advice?
what the hell...? and he is turned OFF by this?


women get wet...and EXTRA wet....when they are turned on...so that is just weird that he's turned off by that..


if i where you...i'd tell him: ';well, if YOU think this is too wet...you can go down there and clean it up!'; ...you KNOW what i'm saying girls!I get really wet during sex, and my husband finds this a turn off, any advice?
Sounds like he hasnt matured in this department very much....I think that is something he will have to get over himself.
he is missing the point... that is a natural reaction when women get excited.. it's a lubricant... but i love it when my partner gets wet..theni know she is excited..which turns me on
You are supposed to be wet!!!!!! What is he talking about? I think he needs to seek help.
HOW OLD IS HE??????
Actually, it may sound weird, but start to douche fairly regularly. I have heard that it permanently reduces the amount of fluid your body produces (Exactly why my mom told me NOT to do it, but it seems helpful in this case)
Wow, that seems kind of petty on his part. What is he OCD? Wet is a very good thing and will serve you well as you age, because you'll lose some of that over time (a lot of more mature women have a problem with dryness).





I think you need to tell him that this hurts your feelings and that it's not something you can control; it's just how your body works. Tell him that you enjoy being with him so intimately, but if he makes you self-conscious that you will eventually rather avoid feeling this way, which means you'd be with him that way less. I think he'll stop making those comments pretty fast. Besides, it's not slime, it's what you're body's supposed to do. If you weren't wet, it would hurt. Then you wouldn't want to have sex at all.





He should be grateful that you are not one of the rare minority of women that ejaculate (that would really freak him out!).
sarah are u crazy or what your husband is eitherGAY,BI ,OR ON THE DL(DOWNLOW) any man on this planet would want a girl 2 get wet so what the **** iz wrong with him leave his *** and go get you a real man that WILL get u wet!
... My husband and well men for that matter love it when women get this way..... It should make it feel better for him. Does he have ocd with other parts of his body? It sounds to me like he just doesnt enjoy sex period.
I'm really sorry to say this but he needs professional help.
Damned if you do and damned if you don't most men would get pissed or disgusted because you aren't getting wet at all and here you are clearly attracted to and turned on by your husband and yet he still has found something to complain about that just adds to the theory that men are idiots not calling your husband an idiot and not by far calling all men idiots because my husband is great but he is still a man and they do and say stupid s h i t If you weren't getting wet he would start accusing you of not being attracted to him God love him you can't live with em' and you can't kill em' damn what a shame
get you a new man, he needs to mature in this department.
wow now that a good question. most people would die to be that wet but in your case you wont to be dry.i sorry but the only thing i can think of is what you are doing now. you could talk to your Gino and see if there is another way. Good Luck.
Girl, something's wrong with him.





Most men would go crazy for that.
Wet is the best!
this is normal for you
Wow.....I have that same ';issue'; (I won't call it a problem) and my husband loves it because he knows that he is the reason for it. Too many women have a problem with dryness, which makes it uncomfortable, and can cause more problems. It has absolutely nothing to do with how many partners you have had....it is just your body, over which you have no control. Explain to him that it isn't ';slimy';, it is WET, which is what he needs to dive right on in! Maybe a sex therapist might help him understand your body better ~ I am sure he would choose Niagara Falls over the Mojave Desert!
Something is definitely wrong with your husband if he thinks that is a turn off. There is nothing wrong with you and you shouldn't have to keep a cloth with you during sex. You can't even enjoy yourself because you are too busy worried about how he feels. I find this to be very strange because most guys, apparently not yours, would think that there was only a problem if the woman didn't get wet at all, not that she is getting TOO wet! He should just enjoy the feeling...
This is your husband's problem, not yours..but it has become yours. I have no answers for you, for he has an aversion for some reason..he needs some pro help in digging to the bottom of this. Personally, I would thank you for not needing lube..I hate it dry and squeeky!
WOW, I have never heard a husband complain about how wet he gets his wife???





My guess is he doesn't pleasure you orally either?





WOW, I have been married 10 years and I don't know what to say! I would be ecstatic as your husband!
Good grief...the wetter my wife gets the more fun I have. It shows me I'm doing things right and that her body is enjoying the sensations. Like someone else mentioned earlier, your hubby needs to be educated about human sexuality and how the body responds. He comes across (the way you have written) as being rather selfish as far as we are concerned. After 10 years of marriage..he complains about this? Sheesh!
It's hard to believe that you have sex with him 3 to 4 times a week if he is ';that'; disgusted. Assuming you do though, I would tell him that you get that way because of how he makes you feel. Build up his ego a bit. Let him know that he is special and not just anyone could make you feel that way. One thing to consider is the nature of the ';wetness';. If this is your natural lubrication due to excitation then that is fine, but if you have some kind of discharge (with possible unappealing odor) then perhaps ';that'; is what he is really referring to. Ask your gynecologist if there might be a problem. He might be able to shed some light. Hope things improve.
Wow ... that's gotta suck .. who doesn't love a nice wet ..... lol ... sounds like he needs to get the stick out of his @ss and learn to deal with the human body ... I really don't think there's much you can do other then wiping ... good luck hope he gets over it ... 10yrs and still complaining ... he needs help ... !
Wow I have never heard of a man having a problem with this. Its usually the other way around. I'm sorry but there is nothing wrong with you. Its a very natural thing that your experiencing and very strange that your husband has an issue with it. Let him know that if you were not turned on by him then you wouldn't be so aroused and that he should feel like '; THE MAN'; not grossed out.


My only suggestions would be if your using any kind of lube then stop because you prolly don't need it. Other then that your a women and cant control your body. Unless he completely turns you off your gonna have this problem. Sorry and good luck to you!!!
sometimes that happens to me too but my boyfriend don't get disgusted about it it actually turns him on i would think alot of guys are like that but i guess not thats just a little weird
a squirter ...that's one thing.... but ...a lil wet is actually a welcome condition
Yeah tell your husband to get over himself!





You can't control that, your body does it naturally.





You are a better person then me beucase if a guy EVER said that to me he would never be getting sex from me again.
Yeah I have the same Wetness but my guy likes it! So for your keep a cloth with you its ok! YOUR wet because he is doing his job! and that is good do what you have to do for your man and make dry! Do the Wipeing when change positions He would enjoy that! Good luck!
get a new husband.
if he is just having sex with u for time pass or for yours satisfaction and as he is ur husband then he will get turnedoff.that is urs body language.so now best thing u can do is do more oral sex before doing actual and try ,offer him different poses.and make him sweat too.then he will just see the passion and will not get disturbed with anything else.dont feel shy to do this bcoz he is your huband .its your duty %26amp; pride to satisfy him also sexually.
Nope, first time I have heard this complaint. Usually it is the other way around. Have you told him you only get that way because you are excited? I dont even know what to think of this one.