I need info or advice on what to do if my ex-husband lies to our kids and never answers or returns our calls!?

If he lies, you tell them the truth doing your best not to talk trash about him in the process....you are factual but leave the opinion and the histrionics out. If he doesn't answer/return phone calls, you quit calling unless it is a legitimate emergency--you always call for those, and you leave messages about what the emergency is, and how to contact you. and beyond that, at least two times a year, you write a letter informing him of the progress of the children--their activities, their grades, their health--and you send it certified mail. He either picks it up or he doesn't....but you have proof you did EVERYTHING in your power reasonable to keep the door open to him having a relationship with his kids. That all anyone can ask of you--yourself, your kids, the courts, your miserable ex husband, and yes even God.





I'll think of your kids when I send my thoughts to the big guy upstairs tonight.I need info or advice on what to do if my ex-husband lies to our kids and never answers or returns our calls!?
If you find out that he has told lies to your kids, you make sure they hear the truth from you.


If he doesn't answer or return your calls, stop calling. Trust me, from the way you describe him, neiter you nor your kids need him in your lives.I need info or advice on what to do if my ex-husband lies to our kids and never answers or returns our calls!?
Don't keep calling him. He is better off not being in their lives. He is teaching your kids that his behavior is acceptable and they might repeat this behavior when they have spouses and children. I am sure you want better for your kids. Move on and have no expectations of him. Then if he ever does follow through, you will be delightfully impressed!
you don't need to make your ex look bad in front of your kids, just tell your kids that dad is working allot. in the future your kids will see everything for them self's.
It is obvious he is not interested in you guys or your welfare. Talk to a lawyer about this. Think carefully about what you are going to do because if he lies to your kids he does not care about hurting them. Can you cancel his visiting rights to avoid hurting them any longer? Kids can get really confused and will feel betrayed by your husband and please don't make any excuses for him or cover for him at all. Kids are quick to realize who cares about them and who does'nt. How like men to hurt you through your kids.


Good Luck
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lying to your kids can not be a good example..try your best to talk with your ex-husband regarding this matter. if he doesn't return calls immediately maybe because his busy with work and try to understand him if he still doesn't change try to discuss things regarding this matter and make compromises for the childrens sake.