Advice on how to talk to my husband about our sex life?

Sometimes hes really good and freaky , I like that . but most of the time I already know whats coming first a kiss, then nibble on a , then put my h%$# down there then etc. How do I tell him without making him feel less of a man that we need to change it up a bit. or what can I do?Advice on how to talk to my husband about our sex life?
Take charge for a night. Tie him up or blindfold him and then do whatever you want. Most guys are more than happy to be dominated in those circumstances!


When you've had a great time, reflect with him that sometimes a change keeps things interesting.Advice on how to talk to my husband about our sex life?
Interesting question! As you may be well aware, men and woman think differently about sex the majority of the time, but have a lot of the same cravings! I think the trick of men and woman discussing sex is the approach to the conversation. It most likely wouldn鈥檛 be advisable to have this conversation right after that event. It may be acceptable before the event in question. But the best time would be in the car. You have each others attention and are in a 鈥渘eutral 鈥?environment. My opinion is you should bring this up as a positive rather than a negative. People are more approachable when they perceive change as a positive. If you approach this subject in this manner I believe things will change for the better. Most people want their ego stroked from time to time. If you make him feel good, he most likely will make you feel good.
You can direct the ';action'; too! I love it when my wife isn't quite getting what she needs out of me and she will kind of push me on my back and climb on top of me and get the ride she needs! ! ! WOW it is hot when she is very aggressive on top of me to get her orgasm! ! !





That being said other times she wants me to be aggressive and take her and she will tell me in the heat of passion to ';do it hard'; and I always listen!





My point? Don't sit down at the dinner table and discuss it, be verbal during sex and physically aggressive too!
Straight up talking about it is the best way, if you want to ask how he thinks you're doing in bed and be completely honest with each other. Taking the approach that you want to know what you can do better in bed instead of talking about things he needs to do differently might make it easier. And you can always change things up, next time you're at the mall stop in at Barnes and Noble and take a peek at the sex books-they have a ton of juicy tips on changing it up. Learn a few positions and try em out, take control in initiating sex and do it differently than he does. Changing location helps too and a little blindfold and silk scarves never hurt anyone ;) Have fun!
Start looking at some porn together and just casually say something like ';oh we should try that'; or ';we could do that';. There really isn't a good way to tell a guy that the sex is sometimes just predictable and rather lame, that will just hurt his ego.





*Ooh, buy some handcuffs or a blind fold him randomly and start doing ';naughty'; things to him. I love doing that to my husband.
The secret is to keep it positive. Rather than tell him sex is becoming boring and predictable, tell him you want to try something new. You don't need a reason. Better yet, just show him.





(or put on your leather outfit and command him. I don't know where you are going with this.)
Take the lead and direct him where you want the fun to go. Don't be shy be aggressive. You got the power, now use it to your advantage. Call him at work and tell him some of the stuff your going to do to him when he gets home.
Why don't you initiate it instead?





You can do whatever you want to him, doesn't have to start with him all the time.
do it in a different spot, like a sofa, just put a sheet over it, ahem..so it doesn't get ruined, lol and you start things by doing something out of the ordinary, that'll break the cycle.
WHILE you're in the midst of the foreplay...lightheartedly say...';Oh Honey, do THIS...';





And then proceed to tell him...or show him.





Do it in the heat of the moment, and he'll surely go with it!
I say that you should suggest something different. Take control and do what you like instead of taking his routine. He'll prob enjoy you coming up with something new.
Just ask him if he would like to try something different the next time. He shouldn't get offended.
don';t tell him! just show him. you should start four play with some new ideas and he'll get the message! actions always speak louder than words.
He wants another woman.
Just tie him up and take advantage of him and have your way.
Just talk with him about it.