Need advice for how to treat her new husband. She and I used to mess around and he is TOTALLY jealous.?

He's been J ever since he found out. My husband knows and could care less. This all started before I got married and other than our friendship, there's been nothing sexual since I was married in 2003. They got married this month and I was a BM in the wedding but he is SO rude to me and I just can't stand him! She is my BF but lives 3 hours away so most of our friendship is on the phone. When I was in town for some wedding events she made it clear she is still interested in the 'more than friends' part of our friendship. So 2 questions - 1 - how do I let her know I am married and not interested in that past lifestyle anymore and 2 - how do I deal with her new hubby. We were close friends before one night with dacquiries turned us into more than friends... just looking for advice.Need advice for how to treat her new husband. She and I used to mess around and he is TOTALLY jealous.?
1.b honest with her n tell her u cherish ure friendship,n will allways b hr friend but ,u love ure hubby fullfills u n every way possible.,,2.just pretend like nothing happened n keep ure head up high..sooner or later he will see what a butt head his bing n start treating u with respect,,peace n love b with u..Need advice for how to treat her new husband. She and I used to mess around and he is TOTALLY jealous.?
1. If you're really close friends she should respect the fact that you're married and not interested in that type of relationship any more. You should just tell her straight up that you love your husband and you're only interested in him.





2. Tell her about her husband. Let her know that you feel like he's kind of rude and you don't understand why he's coming off to you like this. Hopefully once they talk about this he can get over his jealousy and see that's it nothing to worry about.